Anal Sex: The ins and outs.
Anal Sex: The ins and outs.
Congratulations on the decision to explore the sexual
options of butt stuff. Anal sex can be scary to newcomers, but it
does not have to be. There are benefits to engaging in anal play for
both men and women. For example, how else can the prostate be milked?
With a little lube, the right toys, and the right attitude, the
experience can turn from “Ouch!”, to “Oooh!”.
Many men are turned off immediately by anything entering
their backdoor. It can be foreign, taboo, confusing, and at least a
little bit scary. The same can be said for women as well. It does
not have to be like that though. The first hurdle that must be
crossed is the nervousness and apprehension related to the act. The
more nervous a person is, the more likely they are to tighten the
anus, and this is counter productive to having anal sex, so always
remember to just relax.
Lubricant is everyone's best friend when it comes to
taking the back entrance. The main lubricant of choice for anal sex
is the silicone variety. While there are water based options that
will get the job done, the silicone lube is still going to much
slicker, and safer as it puts a protective seal on the skin. This
protective seal helps prevent tearing and irritation. Some of the
lubricants also have added ingredients to help the process go that
much more smoothly. For example, the Pjur Backdoor and the swiss navy
black both use ingredients to help relax the back end and make things
more comfortable. Another tip would be to try using cooling silicone
lube, such as the Wicked Ultra Chill. This makes it so that the
silicone still protects, while the cooling sensation takes the mind
off of the act. If silicone lube is not something that can be used
due to allergy or sensitivity issues, a good grab is the JO H2o Anal,
as it comes out more thickly and has a few added ingredients to help
the lube maintain slickness.
For men the benefit of anal exploration is simply the
pleasure brought on by stimulating the prostate. For beginners it can
be intimidating picking out which product to use. There are many
choices, for men though a great place to start is the Dr. Joel Kaplan
line. Dr. Joel has a whole line of prostate massaging toys that are
excellent at getting the job done.
For the women, the benefits are different. Of course it
is always better to start small, and then work up to the bigger toys.
Pleasure is received by the pressure placed on the g-spot from above,
as well as the pressure placed upon the walls of the vagina. To this
end, a plug during intercourse, for example, will maximize the
pleasure received while a partner is entering vaginally. Calexotics
and Doc Johnson both sell great kits for beginners, though buying
steel plugs is always best. Steel is hypoallergenic, non-porous, easy
to clean, and will last a lifetime. The real benefit of steel though
is in the weight, and the increased pressure from said weight. The
company Rouge makes a fantastic line of steel plugs that can take a
person from beginner, to ass master, in no time at all.
There is of course much more that can go into this, and
a person for that matter. Though it is hoped that this little guide
has been helpful for any one considering whether to answer the knock
on the back door. Just remember to relax, lube up, and bring a good
toy along for the ride. Check those boxes, and filling your own boxes
will be a breeze!
Ginger Bear
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