Choosing the stick over the carrot
Choosing
the stick over the carrot: A brief intro to bondage.
Ever
since that shady line of books and movies came out, more and more
people are beginning to peruse the bondage sections at our stores.
While that may have brought people in, it is a fairly vanilla
representation of BDSM, which some refer to as just kink. Kink is
huge. Really huge. Just when you think you've gotten the hang of it,
and nothing could surprise you, along comes predicament bondage to
stir things back up. Kink can be as simple as ties and a blindfold,
or as elaborate as Japanese rope art.
For
beginners, a common mistake is to jump straight into buying a pair of
metal handcuffs. Handcuffs may sound tame, but they are actually not
just for the restraint aspect of being handcuffed, but the pain
aspect of the metal digging into wrists. A great place to start is
with the company Sportsheets intro to bondage kit. This kit comes
with a blindfold, and four strips of strong fabric with soft, velcro
ties at the end. The strips can be tied to just about anything,
including the other strips. This simple kit can allow exploration of
a large variety of restraint positions,, and the company themselves
makes a variety of other great products as well.
Another
great product line to go through is the fetish fantasy line. This
line of products covers everything a kinky mind could think of, and
then some. Using the fetish fantasy series also comes with a quality
bonus, as they back most of their products with a 60 day guarantee.
Fetish Fantasy, which is made by the company Pipedream, is not only a
quality line but a versatile one as well. They make whips, they make
a variety of gags and bits, kits, spreader bars, swings, and so very
much more. If you can think of it, chances are they already have.
Its
best to have an open and honest conversation with your partner before
even picking out products.
Different people are drawn to kink for
different reasons. Some may be a bit sadistic, some may like to
dominate over others, some like being submissive, some are in it for
the thrill of being restrained, while others yet are just in it
because they like the pain. There is many other reasons for liking
it, but before diving in, think about it. Go to a store with your
partner, and find out what you both are comfortable with. Being able
to trust your partner is big in the kink community, as it should be,
and if either is not comfortable with a product, they may not trust
the situation. So open up, and get ready to spank, or be spanked!
Ginger Bear
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