Safety First!

In everything we do in life, there are certain safety precautions that can be taken to ensure a pleasant experience and not die horribly. That may be a bit extreme, but the point remains the same. Safety is important. Sex is no different. There are many ways to practice safe sex, and not just by wearing a condom. Still use condoms though people. Condoms are the first step in safe sex.

The next safe sex technique is to always ensure all parties are fully consenting adults. This is extremely important, and almost feels like it should'nt need to be said, but here are. Our society is having a problem right now with people violating the safety, and the sexual well being of others. We need to all remember that that is not alright. Always ensure everyone involved in whatever freaky deaky stuff may be going on is fully on board with the situation. Probably not a bad idea to take ball gags out for a minute and make sure the other person is on board. Hard to consent when your gagged. Or so I've been told.

From consent, there is only one more big sexy time safety practice that everyone should practice in. What I am referring to is the use of safe words in the bedroom. A safe word is an agreed upon word set and understood by everyone engaging in the act at hand. Picking a safe word can be a tricky task at times. Words that could come up during sex, or that could be used commonly in general conversation. Instead, a word that is not commonly used is always best. For example, the safe word could be auxilary, or sediment. Words that wouldn't generally come up without a very particular set of reasons.

What we have learned today is how to practice the safest sex possible. This is done in three easy steps. Wear a condom. Make damn sure everyone is a consenting adult. Utilize a safe word. Do these three things, and it will ensure that everyone has a nice and safe session of whatever it is consenting adults may do.

Ginger Bear